Thursday 4th July 2024
In this blog I dive into my personal experience and opinion on this subject and why we approach it the way we do at Monsters.
But in 2024, the elite dance competition scene had evolved to such a point that preparing for success in this world has all but become a sport on its own and an all consuming one at that!
Some studios and teachers have lent into this way of training. Increasing the intensity and hours that their students train to keep up with the skills required to succeed, get that trophy and snuggle up with their ego at night knowing they’re ‘the best!’...Cheekiness aside, the effort and results gained from this way of training are commendable and absolutely impressive, but it is the distraction from preparing for an actual career in dance and in some cases the damage that can be done along the way, that cause me to take issue.
I have also seen the effects that the constant comparison to other dancers has on kids and their parents, particularly their mothers, which I cover below under My Personal Experience.
- Choreography Acquisition: We teach our students how to pick up choreography quickly, a crucial skill for auditions and professional work.
- Performance Skills: Our focus is on helping dancers connect with their movements and express emotions, ensuring they can captivate any audience.
- Versatility: We encourage versatility in dance and performing arts styles, preparing our students to adapt to various demands in the dance industry.
- Technique: We place a strong emphasis on proper dance technique, ensuring our students build a solid foundation that enhances their overall performance and reduces the risk of injury.
Comparison was RIFE and so contagious! Infecting even the most down to earth mums and I spent a lot of time on the phone trying to bring them back to their OWN reality and their OWN goals and values, not what every other kid in their age group at Monsters and other studios were doing.
I can confidently say that once I changed, my studio began to change too. Once I was true to my values, gave my ego a big hug but put her in her place, the atmosphere very quickly became more positive and the tit for tat comparison amongst dancers and their parents diminished dramatically to the point where I can honestly say it is something my team and I rarely need to combat.
Don’t get me wrong I love a good trophy and doing well at comps but I don’t let this desire dictate the decisions I make in my studio.
If you made it to the end well done and thanks for reading!
Miss M xx
Thursday 13th June 2024
When it comes to dance studios, there are many misconceptions that can cloud the reality of what they can truly offer kids and their families. I feel dance studios have truly evolved for the better since us millennials danced in the nineties and noughties. At Monsters, we've worked hard to create an environment that defies these stereotypes and supports dancers in every aspect of their journey. About 18 months after opening my studio, when the excitement and overwhelm settled, it became starkly obvious to me the responsibility I had as a studio owner. The impact that dance studios and their teachers have on their students (and their families) can be lifelong. This is when the culture at Monsters truly began to come first.
Here are five common myths about dance studios and the truths that define our approach.
One of the most persistent myths is that dance instructors are authoritarian and unapproachable. At Monsters, our staff is known for their empathy and understanding. We believe in building trust and open communication with our dancers and their families. Our instructors are mentors and guides who nurture the individual strengths of each dancer, creating a positive and encouraging learning environment. We also don’t make you feel bad if you’ve missed an email
It's often assumed that dance studios are solely focused on achieving results at the expense of dancer well-being. At Monsters, we prioritize the holistic development and well-being of our dancers above all else. We understand the privilege and responsibility of impacting young lives during their formative years. Our goal is to cultivate not only skilled dancers but also confident and resilient individuals.
Contrary to the belief that all dance studios are pressure cookers focused solely on winning trophies, Monsters fosters a supportive and relaxed community, more of a slow cooker if you will. Our philosophy centers on personal growth and mutual support rather than cutthroat competition. We encourage dancers to find joy in their progress and celebrate each other's successes, big or small.
At Monsters, we get it—parents in 2024 are basically superheroes juggling work, school, and a never-ending stream of extracurricular activities. We prioritize balance and flexibility because we know your inbox is probably overflowing with emails you might miss now and then. Don’t worry, we’ve got your back! We’re here to make life a little easier for both you and your dancer, no cape required.
A common misconception is that a dance studio must choose between being recreational or competitive. We've put in the hard work to excel in both areas. At Monsters, dancers can enjoy the fun and freedom of recreational dance while also having the opportunity to compete at higher levels if they choose. Our balanced approach ensures that all dancers receive quality training tailored to their aspirations.
At Monsters, we're dedicated to debunking these myths and providing an inclusive, nurturing environment for all our dancers. Our commitment to supportive community, empathetic instruction, and balanced training ensures that every dancer can thrive, regardless of their goals. Come see the difference for yourself and join our dance family today!